my wife has been having an affair

I found out over Christmas that my wife has been having an affair since before we separated. That explains a lot as to why she has had no desire to work things out. The pain I feel from the deception, the infidelity, and the kind of future I face, goes beyond words. I never imagined a thing like this could happen to us.

Here's an article that explains what happened in our marriage: The Walkaway Wife Syndrome. The only difference is that my wife admits she was never the "relationship caretaker."

Hopefully I'll be getting the blog going again soon after the divorce is final, which looks like March of 2006. Please pray for my family. At this point, I'm still seeking reconciliation.

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Here's an update as of May 9, 2006: We went to court in March and experienced a mistrial. The judge announced his anticipated verdict before we had hardly begun and told us we'd be wasting our money to go on. It was really awful. We'll be returning in August. My confidence in our legal system is very low at this point. That judge cost us about $10,000 in legal fees that day.